If you’re experiencing some irritation with clitoral stimulation, you might start with a hybrid (Liquid Silk or Sliquid Organics) or a silicone lubricant (Pink, Pjur, or JO). They provide more slipperiness for longer than their water-based counterparts.
And I would recommend that you try a vibrator. You can vary the intensity of the vibration, the pattern of vibration (continuous or pulsed, for example), and the pressure you (or your partner) apply–all helpful to finding what you need *now* for arousal. I’d recommend the Lily or the Siri as two external options that are versatile, have nice soft surfaces, and can be recharged. The Kiri is a battery-operated, waterproof option with similar features.
Finally, if you’re using a localized hormone like Premarin internally, with an applicator, there may be no added benefit from using a vaginal moisturizer. There’s no harm in trying it, though, and I encourage moisturizer use among women who are not using localized hormones. If you choose to, Yes is the preferred product for many women who come to MiddlesexMD.
